Often, we wish that the people around us would understand and support our journey of personal growth as we try to explain to them how wonderful and rewarding it is to live a life of constant evolution. However, words alone are often not enough to influence their perspective on the world.
People don’t change because someone tells them theories or ideas; they change when they see the real benefits that change can bring to the life of those who have embraced it. It is through example that we can truly “convince” others to support us and adopt an attitude of openness toward change.
If you have been on a personal growth journey for years but continue to smoke, drink excessively, have a food addiction, or harbor negative feelings towards your neighbors, chances are you are not achieving the desired results. So, how can you expect the people around you take you seriously if you cannot concretely demonstrate the fruits of your commitment?
Changing the world doesn’t simply mean telling others to change. Change begins with ourselves, and it must be visible even from afar! There are the healthy and loving choices we make for ourselves that have a real impact on the world. It is through our actions that we can convey a message of authenticity and consistency.
Once you start taking yourself seriously and making choices that are beneficial to you, you will notice that the people around you begin to support you. Your partner may appreciate your commitment to personal growth, your child may be inspired by your example, and even that unfriendly colleague may show unexpected affection.
Always remember that if people don’t take you seriously, the first question to ask yourself is whether you are taking yourself seriously. The way we treat ourselves and take care of ourselves is evident to others. If we want to be treated with respect and consideration, we must begin by respecting and considering ourselves.
Taking yourself seriously is a personal commitment that requires consistency between words and actions. It is a journey of self-awareness and self-love that deeply influences our relationship with the external world.
Be the living example of what you wish to see in others, and you will discover that your authenticity will attract the attention and respect of the people around you.
Take yourself seriously, and the world will take you seriously.
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